This one can be a very tuff call at times because of the work that it takes to build a situation. relationships are the one thing that takes us as individuals out of our realm of self comfort, and places a major responsibility on someone else to provide us with support for our lives (if your serious anyway).. Now I don't know about you, but I'm all about depending on only God and myself for my wants and needs. but no matter what you want to do, while in the relationship for it to work you must COMPROMISE.. Relationships end for several different reasons. but they all end due to lack of compromise from one or both sides at some point. there are a lot of people who have invested their entire lives in a relationship and have crapped out. so that leaves them with no choice but to fix the one and only situation they do have. which sucks.. Some would set a timeframe of 1
month and others would say 1 year. but if you two plan on being together forever then why have a damn timeframe. and if your not planning on forever then stop delaying the inevitable and break the hell up!.. I personally don't believe in the notion that everyone is meant for one person and we all have 'soulmates'. matching horoscope nonsense.. I believe there are about 1,000 people out there for you. and you happen to meet about 5-10 of them throughout your lifetime.. the rest of the people you date or meet aren't meant for marriage. their in your life for great companionship, random episodes of sex, or both.. The shits not chess to me, it's checkers. if
the relationship doesn't look and feel right anymore, it probably isn't.. but to have a fully conducive relationship built on a great foundation and looking towards the future, your heart must be completely committed to wanting to meet the needs of your partner.. Now if for some reason all logic is confusing the shit out of you, and your tired of comparing all the positives and negatives. just look your significant other in the face and ask yourself.. 'can i look at this pretty/ugly somebitch every morning for the rest of my life'. If you can, then that's where compromise begins. and if you can't, then that's where packing your bags begins... what do you think?-
This one can be a very tuff call at times because of the work that it takes to build a situation. relationships are the one thing that takes us as individuals out of our realm of self comfort, and places a major responsibility on someone else to provide us with support for our lives (if your serious anyway).. Now I don't know about you, but I'm all about depending on only God and myself for my wants and needs. but no matter what you want to do, while in the relationship for it to work you must COMPROMISE.. Relationships end for several different reasons. but they all end due to lack of compromise from one or both sides at some point. there are a lot of people who have invested their entire lives in a relationship and have crapped out. so that leaves them with no choice but to fix the one and only situation they do have. which sucks.. Some would set a timeframe of 1 
month and others would say 1 year. but if you two plan on being together forever then why have a damn timeframe. and if your not planning on forever then stop delaying the inevitable and break the hell up!.. I personally don't believe in the notion that everyone is meant for one person and we all have 'soulmates'. matching horoscope nonsense.. I believe there are about 1,000 people out there for you. and you happen to meet about 5-10 of them throughout your lifetime.. the rest of the people you date or meet aren't meant for marriage. their in your life for great companionship, random episodes of sex, or both.. The shits not chess to me, it's checkers. if 
the relationship doesn't look and feel right anymore, it probably isn't.. but to have a fully conducive relationship built on a great foundation and looking towards the future, your heart must be completely committed to wanting to meet the needs of your partner.. Now if for some reason all logic is confusing the shit out of you, and your tired of comparing all the positives and negatives. just look your significant other in the face and ask yourself.. 'can i look at this pretty/ugly somebitch every morning for the rest of my life'. If you can, then that's where compromise begins. and if you can't, then that's where packing your bags begins... what do you think?-
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