? what do Women want from Men

The golden question. the correct answer would definitely save men alot of time. money. bullshit. etc.. women are the most complex of God's creations. they can be just as kind as they can be evil but every woman has something that satisfies them, you just have to figure out what it is.. 'i want someone who's sweet'. 'thoughtful'. 'altruistic'. 'understanding to my needs'.. you'll hear women say words like these to describe what they would like, but let's be real women don't actually need all of that. you notice i said need not want right? women need only 3 things from men.. security. empathy. and great sex.. security because women first of all need to feel safe and protected. no woman wants a man that she can beat up in a fight. it also has to do with your level of confidence and your ability to as i like to say 'just take care of it' with no complaints. as a man that goes so far with women.. as far as empathy. women don't want men to feel exactly what their feeling, they just want you to UNDERSTAND. everybody say it with me one time, under-stand-ing. they just need for you to listen, then you can get back to the game. and as far as great sex is concerned. women are such emotional beings and they need to be able to express themselves sexually or that emotion gets released in other ways like arguments. attitudes. or just plain old fashion ignoring your ass.. These 3 needs will unravel what the woman your dealing with actually wants. because they'll never actually tell you what they want, but they'll give you plenty of hints through various actions.. And remember no matter who the woman is. every woman will figure out how to satisfy a need when if becomes necessary to do so. so stay on top of your shit.. what do you think?

america's women: better Mother's or better Wives

It could honestly go either way and it's actually a no win situation which ever way you believe. as people we're given 2 major responsibilities in life no matter what else it is you wish to accomplish. one is as a parent and the other is as a spouse. performing both tasks on a very high level is extremely difficult and many people actually fail job.. Some women put their relationships over their kids and other women put their kids ahead of their relationships. but there is a delicate balance that needs to be in place because who is going to tell a single mother not to seek love in her life. not me. mother's, married or not have the right to live their lives and obtain happiness. now along with that comes a detour in the approach. with having kids especially with a man in your life, how can i put this 'you just can't do certain shit'. that's as clear and plain as i can say it. if you don't have that boundary, that delicate balance i spoke of earlier will not be attainable.. Now in America i believe our women focus more on being better mothers versus being wives. my reasoning actually resonates less from the psychology of women, and more from the social acceptance of divorce. why should you be a great wife if you can't stand his ass anymore? who's gonna force you to stay together? what if the government allowed adoption and/or dis-owning children to be just as easy as divorce, would you let your kids go as well? tell the truth.. It's all about balance ladies. so don't forget to get the kids up and ready in the morning. and also don't forget to give your man a piece of ass at night, it's only fair.. Women and men can do better at being both parents and spouses.. but you can't have one without the other... what do you think?

? how often do Women have an Orgasm

Was it real? or was she faking it? women are the best liars on the planet, but an authentic orgasm has an original distinction unlike anything you have ever seen that woman do.. there are 2 types of orgasms, vaginal and clitoral.. the clitoral is much easier, but vaginal is better for pleasing both people at the same time.. An orgasm can make or break a relationship. women say they love their man but when she goes back to her friends and hears stories from them about how their men hit it while their holding on to the ceiling fan. how they came multiple times. or how they incorporated toys and edible items in the session. well maybe that's just me, but either way jealously and envy is not what you want her to be feeling because women will eventually get what they want even if that doesn't include you.. 10-15% of all women who are sexually active have never had an orgasm before. damn that's alot. but research also shows us that 90% of the problems women have with reaching an orgasm stems from psychological issues. that means that just because a woman doesn't reach an orgasm, doesn't mean the man wasn't 'King Ding-a-ling' for the evening. some women actually have performance anxiety which doesn't allow them to relax, and relaxing and being comfortable is the foundation of a female orgasm. if you don't accomplish that then it's a wrap to begin with.. (ALL MEN PAY CLOSE ATTENTION!) 50-75% of all women are unable to have an orgasm through intercourse alone. so basically fellas if your the type of guy who doesn't go deep sea diving in order to please a woman, i think you had better start. my motto is 'show me a women who isn't receiving oral sex, and i'll show you a woman that can be taken'. the facts don't lie fellas, so act accordingly.. 33-50% of sexually active women experience orgasms infrequently and are dissatisfied with the sex they are having. that statistic combined with the rest in this article have shed a new light for me on what actually constitutes great sex. no matter how good a man is in bed, if a woman is mentally out of the room the chances of having an orgasm are damn near impossible. but on the flip side, men can do a better job of pleasing women and making sure that they are comfortable to the point where the process of an orgasm can begin.. I mean if your gonna do it. you might as well do it right... what do you think?

? can you turn a Ho into a Housewife

Many have tried and many have failed.. i personally don't know many who have succeeded actually, but i see married couples all of the time so i would have to assume that some of those women were or are currently ho's.. There are so many things that you have to take into account these days as far as accepting your significant other for the things they've done in the past. i mean great people stumble in their journey's as well. but i'm analyzing this question from the view point of asking someone to do something they're not used to doing.. if you had one of Michael Vick's wild fighting pit bulls in your possession, would you make that dog the family pet for your home? if you were running for President and you knew Sarah Palin personally would you make her your Vice Presidential candidate? so why would you ask a ho to be a housewife? some things are just not possible due to the preceding facts surrounding the situation.. Ho's make their decisions willingly and knowingly and should be treated as such.. I've been asked the question 'what if i was a ho years ago, but i'm not anymore'. i had to actually think about that one for a long time. because i truly due believe in people progressing and changing their lives for the better. and it's actually possible for everyone to learn from their mistakes.. but ho-ing is a different type of beast. once you've gotten to a certain point what's one more. then one more. then one more. so on and so forth.. From what i've noticed from my research most ho's don't realize their ho's.. some are in denial.. and some don't know because their hanging with sluts so they don't think what their doing personally is that bad.. but your number of partners is something that should be monitored. less for public opinion and more for health reasons.. you can't have sex with everyone you think is attractive. that's not the way it works.. The most prized possession that a man can EVER have is his woman, and nobody wants a ho... what do you think?

? why don't more Women approach Men initially

I know when growing up ladies your parents told you that a man approaches a woman and not the other way around. but they also didn't tell you that women out number men as far as population is concerned, so you better get in where you fit in.. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman approaching a man first. it exudes confidence and self-assurance unlike anything else. it's the ultimate move of an miss independent woman (i know ya'll are going crazy over that song right now).. chivalry is a bi-product of the initial conversation between a man and a woman, it's not part of the introduction.. So do women not approach men as often because we're too busy trying to look cool in public? licking our lips all smooth and shit. or maybe because too often men go out in public and act as if their only there to see other men.. and no, they're intentions aren't for homo-sexual activity, but it's not hetero-sexual activity either.. i'm gonna leave that one alone.. it goes without saying that men handle more of the financial responsibility as far as dating is concerned. so damn! can we get a 'hello'. a 'can i have your number'. and maybe even a 'can i buy you a drink'. shit.. Women don't lose any points by going after what they want in anything in life, but when it comes to going after the man that you want all of a sudden that's not lady like.. i was approached this past weekend by a nice woman and she gained points from me because of how confident she was in her approach. i love that shit.. In a perfect world we all would have signs on our foreheads which would light up when you look at someone your interested in.. but what we do have is the ability to speak and preferably touch someone and let them know. i'm interested in you, what is your name?.. it's as simple as that ladies. now go get'em... what do you think?