? what do Men really Want

I guess food. sex. and silence would be too easy huh?.. the truth of the matter is that most men want alot of the same things, we just go to different companies to fulfill the need.. bud light. miller light. chevy. ford. the majority of our wants are really based off of what will get us the most women, and any man that tells you other wise is not telling the truth. or is a homosexual and doesn't pertain to the theory given anyway.. The common denominator that we men came up with a long time ago is that women love money! or not necessarily money, but the items that can be exchanged for the green backs.. women have so much control it's crazy. it's crazy because i've seen so many men get into bad situations due to falling for a woman they had no business giving a prominent role. an apple is always gonna be an apple. and an orange is always gonna be an orange. but some men have this issue with turning things into what their not.. Now women are in my opinion the number one reason why men reach their potential. but on the flip side of that coin women are what i would say are the number one reason why men do not reach their maximum potential as well.. it sound very contradictory but it's the difference of two extremes, and Eve set the stage a long time ago for men to take notice and always stay alert.. the problem is when we're being intimate with women is when all that discipline just goes out the window. we turn into mush. and the energy and rationale that you had in your head before is reduced to mumbling and a rush of ideas to your other head.. This topic could have went a completely different direction, but i thought it would be best to chop the head off of this monster and not bullshit.. everything else we want in life comes along the journey to success for the money in order to get more women or a woman.. they're good for us and they're bad for us. but we're gonna continue to live by the sword and die by the sword... what do you think?

? in what order do Most men arrange their personal lives

Most men, and i use this term loosely. have 'control' over what they want for themselves. a great profession. great woman. throw in some good investments and the ability to spend our leisure time in piece, and you have a pretty satisfied man.. The first thing a man looks for while putting his life together is his profession. some men go the reverse route and get a woman first which in my opinion is the wrong way to go. in order to fully handle your responsibilities as a man you must first set a foundation which you and yours can stand on. an unsolid foundation in terms of finances will usually be the easiest way to loosing what may actually be a good relationship.. secondly a man looks to add a woman in his life. i've gone over this in other articles how important the decision is when a man chooses his woman. it says so much about what he stands for, and no matter how intelligent you may be professionally more often than not men don't make the right decision.. And last but not least men place their children in their lives. some men actually will put children over a woman. that sounds crazy but i know men who only had a relationship with a woman because they would conceive beautiful children. you and your wife/girlfriend always have the option of breaking up or divorcing, but your children will always be yours.. haven't you noticed if you watch MTV Cribs most of the athletes and musicians always mention their kids and their kids rooms, but they barely ever mention 'this is my wife'.. some wives are on the show, but pay attention to it next time or youtube it.. we're pretty easy to please. but we like our things our way... what do you think?

? why is it socially acceptable for Men to have more sexual partners that Women

This question is honestly a tough one for me. i began thinking about several different reasons but they became pretty hypocritical pretty fast. i asked several men during my research of the topic and they all said just about the same thing 'that's just the way it is'. throughout the history of the world kings of past empires had multiple wives and were praised for it. but when a woman was looked at as a hor she would either be put to death or scolded by the community.. I personally believe that women are held to a higher regard for a couple of reasons. now i'm not saying these reasons are justified, but at least i'm saying more than simply 'that's just the way it is'.. for one it's just too easy for women to have sex. anything that accessible needs some type of instruction manual for use. men are supposed to approach women as well so say's societies rules, so ya'll already have one leg up. moreover, due to the way God has created both genders, women care more about the act of sex.. women also make the final decision when it comes to actually having sex. and i don't want to hear anybody saying men can say no as well because it takes extreme circumstances for that to happen and you know it.. and lastly a respectable woman is someone who we hold with a very high regard in our society. and anything of great value loses it's value when used too often.. It does seem unfair at times because women have the same sexual urges as men. but i don't disagree with the way the system works.. We are all creatures of habit and have become tolerant of 'the flow' that society creates.. so i guess i said of all that to say, 'that's just the way it is'... what do you think?

? how can a Woman improve a Man

It is very difficult to improve anything that you have no experience actually doing. men are obviously not as complex as women, but we're not as simple as beer. hot wings. and football games.. both men and women are incomplete without one in other so what does it take for a woman to contribute to the completion of a man? most women would probably think it's 'taking care' of us as our mother's would. but the true way a woman can help improve a man is simply by 'saving us from ourselves'.. Men by nature have high levels of testosterone which can turn into foolish pride. lack of critical thinking. impulsive habits. etc.. so it is the task of a woman to make sure that we don't start world war III.. The most effective way for a woman to execute the task of 'saving us from ourselves' is not to suffocate us. i repeat. the best way for a woman to help improve a man is by letting him be one.. we get it. we recognize that some of the things we do before we have a woman we're going to have to change in order to have a healthy and functional relationship. but you have to let us make those changes ourselves, you can't 'tell' us you have to 'let' us figure it all out. yes it can be frustrating to watch at times ladies. but just as a lawyer must have faith in the justice system you must have faith in the system of love, and love requires free will. other wise you'll become that girlfriend/wife that men talk about all of the time. the kind that we plan around our day. not in our day.. Always remember that before you mother a child, you must mother your man.. because we both need a woman's touch, not a woman's grip... what do you think?

? why do men Cheat on their women

There is an old saying that goes 'men are only as faithful as their options'. now that's extremely accurate but we all know that there are exceptions to every rule. so what really makes a man cheat then? there are so many different reasons why, but i compiled what i believe are the top 3 reasons why men cheat (look at all the women on the edge of ya'll seats).. These are in no particular order. reason (1) is because men need an ego boost. yeah it sounds childish but when have you ever known a man who didn't have some sort of swagger. that's part of what makes us men. as a man when your in a relationship things become very routine because women are very organized people. dinner on the same nights. going to more or less the same places. having sex at the same time on the same day(s). you loose what is very important to a man and that's spontaneity. no man likes to feel caged. and as stupid as this may sound, men need to feel like their single while in a relationship (just think about it).. reason (2) has to do with men not being in love with the woman their with anymore. a man who is in a relationship he doesn't want to be in anymore is like a man in prison, you don't know what to expect because he has nothing to loose. women are more inclined to not see someone else until the relationship is officially over. men are the absolute opposite.. and reason (3) is because the sex is not good anymore, if it was ever good at all. if i was placing any of these 3 reasons at the top this would be number one. there are a few sub-categories which falls underneath sex not being good anymore such as women not wanting to try certain sexual things. the man is getting better sexually and his woman isn't. he doesn't feel like she desires him in the same way as she used to. in other words she just has sex to please him, not because she wants to.. every man want a freak in the bedroom and a lady in public. women too often fall in love and forget to be freaky because freaks aren't looked at as classy women. but yes they are. but only behind closed doors for your man to see, and occasionally in the car as long as the windows are tinted.. If i can stress any of these points to you it would be to be spontaneous with your man ladies. routines are a quick way to get his mind and eyes working against you. we don't like to be bored so handle your business before some other woman grabs his attention. and remember that men think about sex just about every 7 seconds. so is he thinking about you?... what do you think?