Tuesday, December 2, 2008

? how can a Woman improve a Man

It is very difficult to improve anything that you have no experience actually doing. men are obviously not as complex as women, but we're not as simple as beer. hot wings. and football games.. both men and women are incomplete without one in other so what does it take for a woman to contribute to the completion of a man? most women would probably think it's 'taking care' of us as our mother's would. but the true way a woman can help improve a man is simply by 'saving us from ourselves'.. Men by nature have high levels of testosterone which can turn into foolish pride. lack of critical thinking. impulsive habits. etc.. so it is the task of a woman to make sure that we don't start world war III.. The most effective way for a woman to execute the task of 'saving us from ourselves' is not to suffocate us. i repeat. the best way for a woman to help improve a man is by letting him be one.. we get it. we recognize that some of the things we do before we have a woman we're going to have to change in order to have a healthy and functional relationship. but you have to let us make those changes ourselves, you can't 'tell' us you have to 'let' us figure it all out. yes it can be frustrating to watch at times ladies. but just as a lawyer must have faith in the justice system you must have faith in the system of love, and love requires free will. other wise you'll become that girlfriend/wife that men talk about all of the time. the kind that we plan around our day. not in our day.. Always remember that before you mother a child, you must mother your man.. because we both need a woman's touch, not a woman's grip... what do you think?

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