There is an old saying that goes 'men are only as faithful as their options'. now that's extremely accurate but we all know that there are exceptions to every rule. so what really makes a man cheat then? there are so many different reasons why, but i compiled what i believe are the top 3 reasons why men cheat (look at all the women on the edge of ya'll seats).. These are in no particular order. reason (1) is because men need an ego boost. yeah it sounds childish but when have you ever known a man who didn't have some sort of swagger. that's part of what makes us men. as a man when your in a relationship things become very routine because women are very organized people.
dinner on the same nights. going to more or less the same places. having sex at the same time on the same day(s). you loose what is very important to a man and that's spontaneity. no man likes to feel caged. and as stupid as this may sound, men need to feel like their single while in a relationship (just think about it).. reason (2) has to do with men not being in love with the woman their with anymore. a man who is in a relationship he doesn't want to be in anymore is like a man in prison, you don't know what to expect because he has nothing to loose. women are more inclined to not see someone else until the relationship is officially over. men are the absolute opposite.. and reason (3) is because the sex is not good anymore, if it was ever good at all. if i was placing any of these 3 reasons at the top this would be number one. there are a few sub-categories which falls underneath sex not being good anymore such as women not wanting to try certain sexual things. the man is getting better sexually and his woman isn't. he doesn't feel like she desires him in the same way as she used to. in other words she just has sex to please him, not because she wants to.. every man want a freak in the bedroom and a lady in public. women too often fall in love and forget to be freaky because freaks aren't looked at as classy women. but yes they are. but only behind closed doors for your man to see, and occasionally in the car as long as the windows are tinted.. If i can stress any of these points to you it would be to be spontaneous with your man ladies. routines are a quick way to get his mind and eyes working against you. we don't like to be bored so handle your business before some other woman grabs his attention. and remember that men think about sex just about every 7 seconds. so is he thinking about you?... what do you think?
There is an old saying that goes 'men are only as faithful as their options'. now that's extremely accurate but we all know that there are exceptions to every rule. so what really makes a man cheat then? there are so many different reasons why, but i compiled what i believe are the top 3 reasons why men cheat (look at all the women on the edge of ya'll seats).. These are in no particular order. reason (1) is because men need an ego boost. yeah it sounds childish but when have you ever known a man who didn't have some sort of swagger. that's part of what makes us men. as a man when your in a relationship things become very routine because women are very organized people. 
dinner on the same nights. going to more or less the same places. having sex at the same time on the same day(s). you loose what is very important to a man and that's spontaneity. no man likes to feel caged. and as stupid as this may sound, men need to feel like their single while in a relationship (just think about it).. reason (2) has to do with men not being in love with the woman their with anymore. a man who is in a relationship he doesn't want to be in anymore is like a man in prison, you don't know what to expect because he has nothing to loose. women are more inclined to not see someone else until the relationship is officially over. men are the absolute opposite.. and reason (3) is because the sex is not good anymore, if it was ever good at all. if i was placing any of these 3 reasons at the top this would be number one. there are a few sub-categories which falls underneath sex not being good anymore such as women not wanting to try certain sexual things. the man is getting better sexually and his woman isn't. he doesn't feel like she desires him in the same way as she used to. in other words she just has sex to please him, not because she wants to.. every man want a freak in the bedroom and a lady in public. women too often fall in love and forget to be freaky because freaks aren't looked at as classy women. but yes they are. but only behind closed doors for your man to see, and occasionally in the car as long as the windows are tinted.. If i can stress any of these points to you it would be to be spontaneous with your man ladies. routines are a quick way to get his mind and eyes working against you. we don't like to be bored so handle your business before some other woman grabs his attention. and remember that men think about sex just about every 7 seconds. so is he thinking about you?... what do you think?
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