What you get when don't get what you want is the definition of 'experience'. ask anyone who has loved someone and had it end on a sour note and they'll tell you nothing you can actually live through feels worse.. love is one of those things that is all or nothing. there's no gray area. you emotionally feel like a million bucks. or you feel like your emotionally in debt.. Now some people say that they've been in love before and they haven't been. and some people say they haven't been but have. but how do you really know? i'm one of those people who says i have been. it was a while ago but the 2 things i remember vividly about the experience which confirms my feelings are. 1) how much better of a person she made me. and 2) the way i would always put her feelings before mine.. now the 2nd point was challenged at
times due to immaturity and too much pride, but overall i was very much in love.. and even til this day i am very grateful for the experience because it changed my life.. So i guess it's not hard to tell which side of this question i am on. you can't knock it til you try it.. love is one of those things that you can't plan or anticipate, it just has to come. but it's that lack of preparation that makes it worth while and so special.. The number one intangible that is missing for most couples who are in love or have the chance of love (and yes i am insinuating that they're are many couples who will never find love together) is the understanding that you have to put in work in order for the love to last.. i'm gonna say that again. just because he has a lot of the same traits as your daddy. and just because your momma likes her, doesn't mean that you don't have to work on the relationship every single day.. 'Ignorance is bliss' is one of my favorite all-time quotes. but in the case of love, i don't think that quote applies... what do you think?
What you get when don't get what you want is the definition of 'experience'. ask anyone who has loved someone and had it end on a sour note and they'll tell you nothing you can actually live through feels worse.. love is one of those things that is all or nothing. there's no gray area. you emotionally feel like a million bucks. or you feel like your emotionally in debt.. Now some people say that they've been in love before and they haven't been. and some people say they haven't been but have. but how do you really know? i'm one of those people who says i have been. it was a while ago but the 2 things i remember vividly about the experience which confirms my feelings are. 1) how much better of a person she made me. and 2) the way i would always put her feelings before mine.. now the 2nd point was challenged at 
times due to immaturity and too much pride, but overall i was very much in love.. and even til this day i am very grateful for the experience because it changed my life.. So i guess it's not hard to tell which side of this question i am on. you can't knock it til you try it.. love is one of those things that you can't plan or anticipate, it just has to come. but it's that lack of preparation that makes it worth while and so special.. The number one intangible that is missing for most couples who are in love or have the chance of love (and yes i am insinuating that they're are many couples who will never find love together) is the understanding that you have to put in work in order for the love to last.. i'm gonna say that again. just because he has a lot of the same traits as your daddy. and just because your momma likes her, doesn't mean that you don't have to work on the relationship every single day.. 'Ignorance is bliss' is one of my favorite all-time quotes. but in the case of love, i don't think that quote applies... what do you think?
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