? why don't more Women approach Men initially

I know when growing up ladies your parents told you that a man approaches a woman and not the other way around. but they also didn't tell you that women out number men as far as population is concerned, so you better get in where you fit in.. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman approaching a man first. it exudes confidence and self-assurance unlike anything else. it's the ultimate move of an miss independent woman (i know ya'll are going crazy over that song right now).. chivalry is a bi-product of the initial conversation between a man and a woman, it's not part of the introduction.. So do women not approach men as often because we're too busy trying to look cool in public? licking our lips all smooth and shit. or maybe because too often men go out in public and act as if their only there to see other men.. and no, they're intentions aren't for homo-sexual activity, but it's not hetero-sexual activity either.. i'm gonna leave that one alone.. it goes without saying that men handle more of the financial responsibility as far as dating is concerned. so damn! can we get a 'hello'. a 'can i have your number'. and maybe even a 'can i buy you a drink'. shit.. Women don't lose any points by going after what they want in anything in life, but when it comes to going after the man that you want all of a sudden that's not lady like.. i was approached this past weekend by a nice woman and she gained points from me because of how confident she was in her approach. i love that shit.. In a perfect world we all would have signs on our foreheads which would light up when you look at someone your interested in.. but what we do have is the ability to speak and preferably touch someone and let them know. i'm interested in you, what is your name?.. it's as simple as that ladies. now go get'em... what do you think?