It could honestly go either way and it's actually a no win situation which ever way you believe. as people we're given 2 major responsibilities in life no matter what else it is you wish to accomplish. one is as a parent and the other is as a spouse. performing both tasks on a very high level is extremely difficult and many people actually fail job.. Some women put their relationships over their kids and other women put their kids ahead of their relationships. but there is a delicate balance that needs to be in place because who is going to tell a single mother not to seek love in her life. not me. mother's, married or not have the right to live their lives and obtain happiness. now along with
that comes a detour in the approach. with having kids especially with a man in your life, how can i put this 'you just can't do certain shit'. that's as clear and plain as i can say it. if you don't have that boundary, that delicate balance i spoke of earlier will not be attainable.. Now in America i believe our women focus more on being better mothers versus being wives. my reasoning actually resonates less from the psychology of women, and more from the social acceptance of divorce. why should you be a great wife if you can't stand his ass anymore? who's gonna force you to stay together? what if the government allowed adoption and/or dis-owning children to be just as easy as divorce, would you let your kids go as well? tell the truth.. It's all about balance ladies. so don't forget to get the kids up and ready in the morning. and also don't forget to give your man a piece of ass at night, it's only fair.. Women and men can do better at being both parents and spouses.. but you can't have one without the other... what do you think?
It could honestly go either way and it's actually a no win situation which ever way you believe. as people we're given 2 major responsibilities in life no matter what else it is you wish to accomplish. one is as a parent and the other is as a spouse. performing both tasks on a very high level is extremely difficult and many people actually fail job.. Some women put their relationships over their kids and other women put their kids ahead of their relationships. but there is a delicate balance that needs to be in place because who is going to tell a single mother not to seek love in her life. not me. mother's, married or not have the right to live their lives and obtain happiness. now along with 
that comes a detour in the approach. with having kids especially with a man in your life, how can i put this 'you just can't do certain shit'. that's as clear and plain as i can say it. if you don't have that boundary, that delicate balance i spoke of earlier will not be attainable.. Now in America i believe our women focus more on being better mothers versus being wives. my reasoning actually resonates less from the psychology of women, and more from the social acceptance of divorce. why should you be a great wife if you can't stand his ass anymore? who's gonna force you to stay together? what if the government allowed adoption and/or dis-owning children to be just as easy as divorce, would you let your kids go as well? tell the truth.. It's all about balance ladies. so don't forget to get the kids up and ready in the morning. and also don't forget to give your man a piece of ass at night, it's only fair.. Women and men can do better at being both parents and spouses.. but you can't have one without the other... what do you think?
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