Monday, September 22, 2008

? do you accept people based on Who they Are or Who they're Going to be

Have you ever heard someone say 'I love who he/she is gonna be in the future'. so what do you do with the person that's in your face right now? I refer to potential as 'character credit', and based on how much you have everything from jobs to love interests will come your way.. rehabilitation is something that every person goes through, and rightfully so because no one on earth is ever going to be perfect. but why do certain people feel worse than others presenting there mistakes? what you go through does make you who you are good or bad.. Our society has an unspoken mistake system that we're all judged on and no it's NOT FAIR. but that's life.. the beauty of the system is that you can override it whenever you want to.. so if society doesn't give an ex-con a chance, you can. if society doesn't give a former drug addict love, you can.. Now some things do make me scratch my head when it comes to accepting someone for who they are. just because you have to be accepted for who you are doesn't mean you should abuse the free will your given. as a man you should want to be respected as a father and known as a provider. so you have to work your ass off in life in order to be referred to as such. and for women ya'll eventually want to be referred to as mothers, so i think it's important to not be a hor.. the words mother and hor don't even fit in the same sentence, but we have plenty of them across this great nation.. Now this isn't to put anyone down or make anyone feel bad about what they've done in the past or are doing now. but a higher level of attention needs to be given to the choices that are made, BEFORE they're made instead of bailing out by saying 'accept me for who I am' after the fact.. and if you really don't give a damn, then strut your stuff. i won't agree with you but i can respect someone who can recognize who they are positive or negative. we as an audience can only call it how we see it.. So fellas if you spend alot of money on women, then decide to stop and wonder why she stops calling you. or ladies if you give it up fast normally and decide not to this time because you think he's special, and he stops calling you. neither of you can be upset. they accepted you for who you are and you changed. that's what we call false advertising. they want the same deal everybody else got and there's nothing wrong with that.. i'm basically saying with both analogies that you must live with every decision you make even after you learn and grow from them.. My main point is that if you want someone to accept you for who you are. make sure that it's something you can be proud of, or be willing to speak about openly and honestly if your not proud. It's you. be a man/woman and take responsibility for your actions past and present.. And don't accept someone for what their going to be because their potential may not turn into anything.. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. and garbage is beautiful to homelss people, but that doesn't make it acceptable... what do you think?

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