This question was worded very specific for those who need to take another look at race realtions.. I asked the same question to 30 random people and they all said no the first time around.. then when I asked what if their mother, sister, brother, or someone they were related to was playing with different markers. 50% of them said 'hell yeah' they have a problem.. when you wake up in the morning you don't always match the 'same' colors together, you match the 'right' colors together for the perfect outfit. and it should be the same with people, but we're so conditioned to conforming to what culture and society has set in place already.. I personally do date outside of my race, very often actually. and when I go through the best dating experiences of my past, all but 2 were interracial.. But you have to be able to handle it because on the flip side of all the positives
there are several negatives. no matter where you go people are going to stare.. me and my Egas dealt with lots of whsipers and confused looks while going anywhere in public. but that actually made our relationship stronger at the time.. you have a 50-50 chance of maintaining your situation by the way you handle public perception. some people fold, and some get stronger. but you'll find out very fast what type of person your dealing with because it's usually pretty obvious.. Most interracial dating starts with curiosity. first your curious, then your addicted.. all the stereotypes you've ever heard will lead you to getting caught
slippin'.. like 'are black guys really packing'. or 'when a hispanic woman says papi in bed, the sex
feels better'. and 'are white girls really that wild & crazy'.. I guess curiosity killed the cat (no pun intended).. I'm not into asian, black, hispanic or white. i'm into good and bad.. if i've learned anything in my 25 years. i've learned that good women, and good men (no homo) are hard to find.. In my opinion people who date 'seriously' outside of their race have the most character on the planet. it takes a special type of person to handle all of the criticism and negative opinions that other people project for such a personal decision.. So if the Lord blesses you with someone of another race you thank him and appreciate the opportunity, regardless of what your friends, family, and the public have to say.. Because so many people miss out on a great experience for matching the 'same' colors. not the 'right' colors... what do you think?
This question was worded very specific for those who need to take another look at race realtions.. I asked the same question to 30 random people and they all said no the first time around.. then when I asked what if their mother, sister, brother, or someone they were related to was playing with different markers. 50% of them said 'hell yeah' they have a problem.. when you wake up in the morning you don't always match the 'same' colors together, you match the 'right' colors together for the perfect outfit. and it should be the same with people, but we're so conditioned to conforming to what culture and society has set in place already.. I personally do date outside of my race, very often actually. and when I go through the best dating experiences of my past, all but 2 were interracial.. But you have to be able to handle it because on the flip side of all the positives 
there are several negatives. no matter where you go people are going to stare.. me and my Egas dealt with lots of whsipers and confused looks while going anywhere in public. but that actually made our relationship stronger at the time.. you have a 50-50 chance of maintaining your situation by the way you handle public perception. some people fold, and some get stronger. but you'll find out very fast what type of person your dealing with because it's usually pretty obvious.. Most interracial dating starts with curiosity. first your curious, then your addicted.. all the stereotypes you've ever heard will lead you to getting caught slippin'.. like 'are black guys really packing'. or 'when a hispanic woman says papi in bed, the sex 
feels better'. and 'are white girls really that wild & crazy'.. I guess curiosity killed the cat (no pun intended).. I'm not into asian, black, hispanic or white. i'm into good and bad.. if i've learned anything in my 25 years. i've learned that good women, and good men (no homo) are hard to find.. In my opinion people who date 'seriously' outside of their race have the most character on the planet. it takes a special type of person to handle all of the criticism and negative opinions that other people project for such a personal decision.. So if the Lord blesses you with someone of another race you thank him and appreciate the opportunity, regardless of what your friends, family, and the public have to say.. Because so many people miss out on a great experience for matching the 'same' colors. not the 'right' colors... what do you think?
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