Just because you don't see it live and in person doesn't mean it isn't happening.. or maybe you do see it and it's just normal for you.. we'll i'm one of those who never sees it, but the statistics made me stop what i was originally gonna blog about today and focus on this. and fellas don't think this is just about women who are being abused. women represent 90% of all victoms which means they're coming after us also.. The numbers for domestic violence cases per year are past alarming.. there are between 1 million- 3 million incidents of violence against a current or former spouse, or bf/gf per year.. over 500,000 women are stalked every year.. 76% of rape cases per year are comitted by a current or former husband, cohabiting partner, or a date.. there are actually many more facts but you get my point.. I think the craziest part about these facts is that this is only
what has been reported. just think about how much is going on and kept underwraps.. children are also deeply affected by this as well. they rarely say anything about domestic violence situation but breed that sadness and anger inside and that will eventully display it's self. more than likely as an adult when there are no 2nd chances for them.. But what can we do? that is the biggest question concerning domestic violence because after all it's happening in the privacy of your own home.. I used to think about men hitting women and it would honestly make me sick to my stomach. i couldn't fathom the concept much less the action.. but one day i saw my neighbor going to jail for hitting his wife because she was cheating and stealing his money behind his back..
he was a very decent man who worked hard everyday. so i started to think maybe i'm being too initially judgemental on men in these cases; seeing as though i've never given my life to anyone for them to crush it with a few foul acts of selfishness.. now i'm not condoning what he did. but i definitely understand it.. most situations dealing with domestic violence are not like my former neighbors though. most are insecure men who need to feel a sense of dominance or worth that they're not receiving somewhere else in life. maybe @ work, or maybe in bed (such little fellas).. The majority of people don't even notice the warning signs either. i know serveral people who honestly believe that drama in a relationship makes it stronger. they think after you've made up you've gotten one step closer to a great relationship.. no, dumbasses!.. you've gotten one step closer to an orgasm, because make up sex is the best sex ever. and that's it, the drama starts back up tomorrow.. I think we all need to take a step back and consider what role each gender plays in this crisis.. Men we need to take more control and responsibility of our emotions. and Women need to take more control over their personal well being and emotions to be able to say 'no!', 'this is enough'.. cause at the end of the day everyone's situation is different. but violence should never be the conclusion for any of them... what do you think?
Just because you don't see it live and in person doesn't mean it isn't happening.. or maybe you do see it and it's just normal for you.. we'll i'm one of those who never sees it, but the statistics made me stop what i was originally gonna blog about today and focus on this. and fellas don't think this is just about women who are being abused. women represent 90% of all victoms which means they're coming after us also.. The numbers for domestic violence cases per year are past alarming.. there are between 1 million- 3 million incidents of violence against a current or former spouse, or bf/gf per year.. over 500,000 women are stalked every year.. 76% of rape cases per year are comitted by a current or former husband, cohabiting partner, or a date.. there are actually many more facts but you get my point.. I think the craziest part about these facts is that this is only 
what has been reported. just think about how much is going on and kept underwraps.. children are also deeply affected by this as well. they rarely say anything about domestic violence situation but breed that sadness and anger inside and that will eventully display it's self. more than likely as an adult when there are no 2nd chances for them.. But what can we do? that is the biggest question concerning domestic violence because after all it's happening in the privacy of your own home.. I used to think about men hitting women and it would honestly make me sick to my stomach. i couldn't fathom the concept much less the action.. but one day i saw my neighbor going to jail for hitting his wife because she was cheating and stealing his money behind his back.. 
he was a very decent man who worked hard everyday. so i started to think maybe i'm being too initially judgemental on men in these cases; seeing as though i've never given my life to anyone for them to crush it with a few foul acts of selfishness.. now i'm not condoning what he did. but i definitely understand it.. most situations dealing with domestic violence are not like my former neighbors though. most are insecure men who need to feel a sense of dominance or worth that they're not receiving somewhere else in life. maybe @ work, or maybe in bed (such little fellas).. The majority of people don't even notice the warning signs either. i know serveral people who honestly believe that drama in a relationship makes it stronger. they think after you've made up you've gotten one step closer to a great relationship.. no, dumbasses!.. you've gotten one step closer to an orgasm, because make up sex is the best sex ever. and that's it, the drama starts back up tomorrow.. I think we all need to take a step back and consider what role each gender plays in this crisis.. Men we need to take more control and responsibility of our emotions. and Women need to take more control over their personal well being and emotions to be able to say 'no!', 'this is enough'.. cause at the end of the day everyone's situation is different. but violence should never be the conclusion for any of them... what do you think?
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