Have you ever found yourself staring too hard and too long at someone attractive while having a significant other? Now there is a difference between admiring and gocking. I'm referring to gocking.. My friend Jordan and I refer to this as "disrespecting yourself". it's that feeling you get when you find yourself in too much admiration over someone's physical attributes or overall swagger.. Now no matter who admits it. people married or not married deal with this everyday in a huge way. and it shouldn't be taken for granted.. for example. when your put in a situation such as a 40 hour work week. or making a routine stop. where you have to look at something to make the time go by. you'll eventually find something that you like. and it'll get stronger everyday.. It may just be that your going through a tough point in a relationship and your curiosity is getting the best of you. or it may be that you have out grown your situation and are attracted to a different type of person altogether.. But the feelings that you experience while in the presence of
'John/Jane Doe' are there for a reason, and should be addressed.. Now besides the obvious physical differences. emotions are the main difference between men and women. women have too many, and men don't have enough. That's why I tell men that have a lady to, "stay on top of your shit".. You have to make sure your woman feels appreciated everyday. because somebody else will.. women talk about relationships to their friends and co-workers all the time. and if it isn't positive most of the time. then her eyes are wondering somewhere else.. That's why being at your best mentally, verbally, and physically at all times is the best way to live. It's easy to begin coasting when you get into a relationship because you've found someone. but that's when you need to be at your best.. You can't spend every second with your partner. and you can't control who they are attracted to. so you must be on top of your shit individually. or that emotional cheating will become physical... what do you think?
'John/Jane Doe' are there for a reason, and should be addressed.. Now besides the obvious physical differences. emotions are the main difference between men and women. women have too many, and men don't have enough. That's why I tell men that have a lady to, "stay on top of your shit".. You have to make sure your woman feels appreciated everyday. because somebody else will.. women talk about relationships to their friends and co-workers all the time. and if it isn't positive most of the time. then her eyes are wondering somewhere else.. That's why being at your best mentally, verbally, and physically at all times is the best way to live. It's easy to begin coasting when you get into a relationship because you've found someone. but that's when you need to be at your best.. You can't spend every second with your partner. and you can't control who they are attracted to. so you must be on top of your shit individually. or that emotional cheating will become physical... what do you think?
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i think you've got some solid stuff you're talking abt... and that it is important for men to know that they need to ALWAYS be on their A game... spoken from a women who has seen TOO many men get entirely TOO comfortable really easily!
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